The right way to argue is to not argue. Defensive position can’t get you far. Instead, we should seek truth together. When I started agreeing more often instead of trying to prove my point, I noticed that it has a similar effect on the people around me. When I agree with someone, they start being more skeptical and critical of their own ideas. As a result, we don’t waste time defending something just for the sake of it and move to our common goal faster. The game of life is about playing it, not about winning it.